Because you were likely born after the sexual revolution, you may not realize that so much of your reality is nudging you towards casual sex.
From the sexual stimuli you perceive in a normal day out in the city to the specific venues you frequent where casual sex can be quickly achieved, you are constantly being funneled into desiring shallow intimacy.
Many corporate industries and globalized forces are controlling this funnel, which all depend on you believing that having a “sex life” is one of the most important features of your existence.
You’ve likely purchased products and services from internet websites. From your perspective, the process is easy and seamless: you’re presented with images, videos, a sales page, and an easy checkout process.
Behind the scenes, however, the owners of a website have done extensive A/B testing to maximize sales. Changing the color of the font, presenting the product within a different layout, or tweaking upsell offers are all factors that go into an optimized sales funnel.
The same thing is happening to us in society. Engineers and scientists have done countless A/B tests to drive “sales,” which in their case is non-reproductive sex that damages an individual’s ability to reproduce in the future.
When a man starts his day, he begins seeing women in revealing clothing on his way to school or work. If a woman is wearing yoga pants, he may even be able to identify the shape of her labia, and imagine it in the nude.
This is a surefire method to rouse up sexual desire and keep it there. He then spends hours in a co-ed university or workplace that further amplifies sexual thoughts.
During breaks, he uses his smartphone to observe more sexy women on social networking or on articles that need his clicks to sell advertisements.
To relieve stress at the end of the day, he seeks an alcoholic drink or two in the bar, where there are loose women who are quite willing to give up immediate sex if he’s able to turn them on. In the case he fails to score with a woman, there will be dating apps for him to use.
Even more potent is the unlimited free porn that can serve as a masturbatory aid in relieving the sexual tension, but which feeds the sex urge further. The cycle will repeat the next day.
The Casual Sex Funnel For Men: Surplus sexual imagery that excites (online and offline) → Co-ed spaces that keep the mind on sex → Alcoholic venues or apps that allow potential fulfilment of sexual desire → Act of casual sex or using free hardcore porn to keep the desire inflamed.
The funnel for a woman is different: it doesn’t sell her the prospect of sex as much as fulfilling her desire to appear beautiful or sexy to the multitude.
It begins in the shopping mall, the fashion magazine, Facebook, and Instagram, where she is bombarded with images of beautiful women who seem to be happy and desirable while exhibiting trendy mannerisms and wearing fashionable clothing and makeup.
When a woman wakes up, she picks out an outfit from her closet that was sold to her as something that would garner sexual attention from men.
On her way to school or work, she morphs — even in a subtle way — into a sexual weapon that excites men, which is exciting to her initially, but as she enters adulthood, she becomes numb to affections from men she deems as “average.”
During the day, she snacks on Instagram and other dating apps, trying to get the attention of a higher standard of man that doesn’t seem to give her attention in real life.
In school or work, she competes with other attractive women and gets annoyed at the ugly men who flirt with her. She also gives positive signals to the good-looking men she hopes will validate her, and when that fails, she goes to the bar or club to drink with her girlfriends, but only “losers” talk to her.
She wonders why Eric from last week didn’t text her back. Wasn’t the blow job she gave him on the first date good enough?
She goes home, takes off her yoga pants, which are now imbued with vaginal sweat, and eats a little bit more than her appetite demands, ensuring that she gains weight and is required to buy more expensive products in the hope that she will still feel attractive.
The Casual Sex Funnel For Women: Buying commercial products that make men desire her → Co-ed spaces that keep her aching to score the best men → Venues or apps that give her access to good-looking men who don’t want to commit to her → Act of casual sex or using alcohol, food, social media, and pills to relieve the pain of not being with a man who loves her.
Consider the industries that are an integral component of the casual sex funnel for both men and women:
- Nightclub and bar industry
- Sex toys and lubricants
- Birth control
- Antibiotics (for sexually transmitted diseases)
- Dermatology and plastic surgery
- Female magazines and websites
- Pop music
- Dating apps
- Processed foods and ice cream
- Boutique cats and toy dogs
- Entertainment and other media options designed for barren women
- Marketing for all of the above
Tinder alone, which is just one app in the entire funnel, is slated to earn over $1 billion this year, almost entirely from men in a state of loneliness or lust.
When all the above industries are combined, there are hundreds of billions of dollars dependent on you consenting to casual sex and then spending money and attention on the paraphernalia that is associated with it.
If casual sex were eliminated today, most of these industries would drastically contract or go bankrupt. At the minimum, they wouldn’t be such an integral driver of the culture that uses the natural sex urge to manipulate both men and women.
Most people are blind to how their behavior is impacted by the casual sex funnel, but it is affecting them every hour of every day.
The funnel’s effectiveness is proved by the fact that most people today believe that casual sex is acceptable, or at least not immoral, when that simply wasn’t the case fifty years ago.
In essence, you are being stuffed through a cultural grinder that parts with your money, time, youth, and ability to meaningfully bond with someone of the opposite sex.
During the whole ride through, you genuinely believe you are acting on your own volition in a “biological”, “scientific”, or “evolutionary” way, when in actuality the casual sex seed was artificially amplified in your psyche through a relentless barrage of social engineering.
The biological sex urge is strong, but it is certainly being manipulated in ways that take you away from the reason we have it in the first place: to bond with one person to create a family.
Instead, you have come to overvalue a purely physical act that even the stupidest, most braindead animals are capable of doing.
The guilt, frustration, and dissatisfaction that are created from committing acts of casual sex merely keep you in the funnel, thinking that more of it is what will satisfy you.
When you fail at the game of using sex to achieve happiness, and you will fail at it, the pharmaceutical, alcohol, and food industries will be there to soothe your pain.
While those of the elite profit off of your manipulated sex drive, the unseen super-elite watch the population suffer from sterility and atomization to achieve their ultimate goal of human control, and the benefits you perceive from “free” sex turn out to be anything but.
By Roosh Valizadeh, the author of “Lady: How To Meet And Keep A Good Man For Love And Marriage“